![]() ![]() ![]() This is one of the biggest signs that this relationship isn’t working. But how long will you hang onto these memories? When do you accept that the shiny past no longer exists and all you have is a gloomy present? 2. You know things could be good because they were good. Once upon a time you got along, you were madly in love, you laughed and enjoyed each other. Nevermind the fact that things haven’t been good in a very long time. You’re living in the past and holding onto the memories of how great things used to be. So let’s look at some of the biggest signs the relationship is done and you should break up. It isn’t always the easy thing to do, but it is really your only option and you’re only delaying the inevitable and cheating yourself out of happiness by not facing the truth. One of the most important relationship skills is knowing when to walk away. You know you’re unhappy, but you try to convince yourself otherwise because it just seems easier. How many of your years are you willing to squander? There is also a big cost to your self-esteem.īeing in a bad relationship can wear away at you and turn you into someone you barely recognize. And there is a big price to pay for this. This way of thinking causes far too many of us to stay in relationships that aren’t working for far too long. ![]() It just seems so much easier to stay where you are, with someone you already know, notwithstanding how miserable you make one another. You went into it with such high hopes of where it all would lead … and now you have to accept that maybe this is the end of the road.Īlso, who really wants to start all over again? Who wants to jump back into the dating waters, get to know someone new, open up, figure out this other person and how well you mesh, meet his family and friends, have him meet your family and friends, and so on. It’s the death of the potential of what could have been. Breaking up isn’t merely hard to do, it’s downright brutal … that’s why so many of us avoid the inevitable!Ī breakup can feel almost like a death. ![]()
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